Attractive?

Something that is as fascinatingly attractive, as irresistable as a magnet. COYLY COME HITHER      OPENLY HONEST            NICELY CONSIDERATE      FREE & BREEZY              INDEPENDENTLY WALKING DARING & DEAR             ...

Thoughts, is it?

  Coming together                     Openly sharing                      Meeting the new                      Misunderstandings & discord   Unwanted strife                         Nudges & noodges                  ...

Gaaaaak!

What hurts more? To lose your self? or Tell one you love they cannot stay? While they choose paths you can not or will  not go? You have accommodated and tolerated but rarely got it in return! So the choice is: to continue on in the...